Wednesday, March 01, 2006
Motivated by Fat Tuesday Sarging:
Bare Breasts and Gunwitch Method:
Bar Chicago on Division Street was crazy tonight. The DJ's were getting girls to dance on the bar, and girls were showing their breasts for beeds. This one blonde in an orange top and jeans was really working the crowd. She also had great, natural looking breasts :) . On the other side of the war was a platform that had too girls showing off their breasts too. These girls looked more like professionals though, and one even had a boob job. Since I hadn't masturbated since noon time, I found myself getting excited. Usually, bare breasts don't do it for me. I've gone to strip clubs and not cared, but tonight was different.
I'll say that getting horny definately was making me more motivated to sarge. I could see how Gunwitch's Method could really get me motivated. If I didn't beat off for one or two weeks, I'm sure I'd really force myself to open more sets. My problem is that I like masturbating too much. My friends think I'm crazy when I say that I relieve myself at least four times a day, and usually more than six times. When I start getting some regular action, I'm sure the girls will be surprised that I'm not one of these 30 seconds guys. On top of that, I often stay hard even after I orgasm which means I can go twice, sometimes three times in a row, with no downtime. I need to remember this when I get approach anxiety. In many ways, including sexually, I would be doing many girls a favor by giving them a chance to know me.
Peacocking:
Jason and I went to Division Street for Fat Tuesday. Jason decided to wear his pimp hat, which is a dark brown, furry, hat. He also wore this "Giant Viagra" necklace. I got see exactly how this stuff works the minute we walked into Bar Chicago. Girls started touching the hat and touching the necklace. I watched him start dancing with a group of girls, and I also saw nearby sets eyeing him and wanting to dance with him too. This mad social proof really does wonders. I've said all along that Jason does half of the game correctly. If he'd just listen to the advice I give him, he'd probably be getting laid nonstop.
Jason has two problems with his method. First, he lets the girls touch the hat and lets them wear it too easily. The right way is to do follow what Mystery says. When girls first try to touch his stuff, Jason should be brushing their hands away and saying, "Hey, hands off the merchandise. This shit aint for free." If they ask to try his hat on, initially he should use another Mystery line, "No, I don't know you from a hole in the wall." What Jason doesn't realize is these type of responses make the girls wnat to chase you more. His second problem is that he dances with the girls but doesn't isolate. People in the Community say the dance floor is a waste of time. For me, it is, but Jason gets mad social proof on the dance floor easily and he often finds himself dancing and grinding with girls. All he has to do is dance with them for a song or two and then isolate them off the dance floor.
Jason has a third problem when it comes to AMOG's. Once again true to what Mystery says, guys want to touch the hat too. Jason even let some guy wear his hat. He needs to again borrow a line from Mystery, "No, you can't touch it. I don't know where your hands have been."
Approach Anxiety:
Wow, I had it big time today. I don't get completely paralyzed by it like I would in the AFC's days. Back then, I be so scared that I'd never make an approach. Since I've had enough practice, I'll eventually get myself to make an approach. The problem is that one or two approaches a night isn't enough. I'm scared to approach b/c I haven't been practicing like I should be. In December, for example, I went out 3-4 times a week, and sometimes even more. When you open that many sets day after day, you get numb to rejection, you find it easy to run routines since you've done them so many times, and you find the party mood carrying over from the previous night. I know that the only way to get my game back to the level it was when I left Gainesville is to open more sets.
I really feel motivated after tonight. For one thing, I can see all the angles. I see when Jason can open girls, and I know each move that he should be making. When I see a set, I know exactly what the theory says about opening it. My problem is that I know that my actual practice of the theory is going to be awkward and I'll likely get busted out.
This reminds me that we blew a big opportunity early on. As we were leaving the first bar we went to, a guy opened Jason about his hat. The guy was in a 5 sets with 4 other girls. One of the girls was going crazy about Jason's outfit. She was visibly excited and she even snapped a photograph of Jason with the guy. Jason easily could have worked her by negging her. He could have said to the group, "Is she always like this?" (Heck, I even threw in a neg. She was having a hard time taking the picture, so I said, "You do know how to use a camera don't you.") The thing is that Jason left after they took the picture. We should have stuck around and worked the group. There were three girls for us to work. I wasn't nearly into the zone at that point so I wasn't much use.
Busted up by Obstacle:
Jason ended up meeting this girl as we were walking out of Mother's at the end of the night. She opened him as we were walking up the stairs. She then tried to get Jason to give her his necklace. He then got her to show him her breasts. Needless to say, we ended up staying. I stayed with Jason for awhile. I forced myself to open some targets, but Mother's was a target poor environment. The only set I found was a 4 set. There was a guy and a girl that looked like his girlfriend. They were having their own conversation. Next to him were two girls who were having a conversation.
I tried a lame vibing opener. I walked up and say, "Hey, what's going on? My friends forcing me to be social since he's hooking up over there." I know that was weak, but I was still in practice mode. This HB6 blonde immediately looked at me and smiled. The other girl didn't react. I then went into my tent opener. I hadn't run it in over a month.
Me: I want to get your opinion on this story my friend told me about. This guy lived in a tent in LA and he supposedly was this big ladies man. Would you ever date a guy that lived in a tent?
Blonde: No.
Me: Don't you think that's a little shallow?
Blonde: (said something like No, I wouldn't date him.)
Me: I thought the same thing when I first heard the story, but you girls read those romance novels where the woman falls in love with the pool guy or stablehand. How do you know when you're attracted to a guy?
Blonde: I don't know. I just get this feeling.
Me: Yeah, like a butterfly feeling in your stomach.
Blonde: Yeah.
Me: Well, imagine we're sitting her. Pretend I'm gay, and you see a Brad Pitt look-a-like walking in. You make eye contact with him and start to get that butterfly feeling. You hang out and find you're totally comfortable with him. Would you ditch him later when you find out he lives in a tent.
Blonde: No.
Everything was running like it usually does, but then the other girls made some comment that I couldn't hear. I asked her, "What do you think?" I was trying to get her involved. Instead of responding, she said to her friend, "I think we should get going."
WTF! The blonde was interested in my conversation. She was facing me the whole time and was smiling at me. I tried busting on the other girl by saying, "Why do you have to be a buzzkill? Are you tired?" I didn't know what else to do, so I ejected with Mystery's "Pleasure meeting you."
Analysis:
This was a perfect example of what happens when you don't engage the obstacle. I didn't know what to do as in the past, both girls would usually listen to my opener. In retrospect, I don't think I should have ejected. I should have just negged the obstacle by saying, "Wow, is she always like this?" and I should have continued gaming the blonde. The set did leave about ten minutes later, so I think they were really close to leaving ,but I took myself out of the game. I should have pressed on until the obstacle really made them all leave, or the blonde told me to leave. I'm out of practice or I'm sure I would have handled this better.
Gameplan:
I need to practice more so I can get back to my old level. I know that I was really close to breaking through when I left Florida. In the past, there were several sets that I held for a long time. Now that I'm not afraid to number close, all I have to do is run a set well again and I'm sure I can get a day 2. If I hold a set for 20-30 minutes, the number probably won't be a flake. Now, I just have to open a ton of sets every week . Even when my club game was completely on, I did find that it would take many sets before I'd find that one that worked well. At the Hyatt in Maui, it took almost all night for that to happen. With Colorado that one time at Alumni Club, I had to take some rejection and AMOGing before I found a great set. I have to keep reminding myself that even people who are good at the game get shot down a ton.
If I really want this, then I should plan on going to Cadillac Ranch tomorrow. I can play cards in the evening and then head out there around 12:30am. Either that, or I can run some mad day game. I should go to Woodfield Mall and practice my game there. There will be lone wolves there, and I can even practice on the "hired guns" (the employees). I should also hit Starbucks at Streets of Woodfield, and hit the Border's bookstore. I bet if I spent all day sarging the malls and various bookstores, I'm sure I could get a bunch of numbers, and surely one of them would be a solid one. If I really were going to be serious, I'd do day and night game, but I'll be happy with myself if I spend a few hours doing one or the other.
Bare Breasts and Gunwitch Method:
Bar Chicago on Division Street was crazy tonight. The DJ's were getting girls to dance on the bar, and girls were showing their breasts for beeds. This one blonde in an orange top and jeans was really working the crowd. She also had great, natural looking breasts :) . On the other side of the war was a platform that had too girls showing off their breasts too. These girls looked more like professionals though, and one even had a boob job. Since I hadn't masturbated since noon time, I found myself getting excited. Usually, bare breasts don't do it for me. I've gone to strip clubs and not cared, but tonight was different.
I'll say that getting horny definately was making me more motivated to sarge. I could see how Gunwitch's Method could really get me motivated. If I didn't beat off for one or two weeks, I'm sure I'd really force myself to open more sets. My problem is that I like masturbating too much. My friends think I'm crazy when I say that I relieve myself at least four times a day, and usually more than six times. When I start getting some regular action, I'm sure the girls will be surprised that I'm not one of these 30 seconds guys. On top of that, I often stay hard even after I orgasm which means I can go twice, sometimes three times in a row, with no downtime. I need to remember this when I get approach anxiety. In many ways, including sexually, I would be doing many girls a favor by giving them a chance to know me.
Peacocking:
Jason and I went to Division Street for Fat Tuesday. Jason decided to wear his pimp hat, which is a dark brown, furry, hat. He also wore this "Giant Viagra" necklace. I got see exactly how this stuff works the minute we walked into Bar Chicago. Girls started touching the hat and touching the necklace. I watched him start dancing with a group of girls, and I also saw nearby sets eyeing him and wanting to dance with him too. This mad social proof really does wonders. I've said all along that Jason does half of the game correctly. If he'd just listen to the advice I give him, he'd probably be getting laid nonstop.
Jason has two problems with his method. First, he lets the girls touch the hat and lets them wear it too easily. The right way is to do follow what Mystery says. When girls first try to touch his stuff, Jason should be brushing their hands away and saying, "Hey, hands off the merchandise. This shit aint for free." If they ask to try his hat on, initially he should use another Mystery line, "No, I don't know you from a hole in the wall." What Jason doesn't realize is these type of responses make the girls wnat to chase you more. His second problem is that he dances with the girls but doesn't isolate. People in the Community say the dance floor is a waste of time. For me, it is, but Jason gets mad social proof on the dance floor easily and he often finds himself dancing and grinding with girls. All he has to do is dance with them for a song or two and then isolate them off the dance floor.
Jason has a third problem when it comes to AMOG's. Once again true to what Mystery says, guys want to touch the hat too. Jason even let some guy wear his hat. He needs to again borrow a line from Mystery, "No, you can't touch it. I don't know where your hands have been."
Approach Anxiety:
Wow, I had it big time today. I don't get completely paralyzed by it like I would in the AFC's days. Back then, I be so scared that I'd never make an approach. Since I've had enough practice, I'll eventually get myself to make an approach. The problem is that one or two approaches a night isn't enough. I'm scared to approach b/c I haven't been practicing like I should be. In December, for example, I went out 3-4 times a week, and sometimes even more. When you open that many sets day after day, you get numb to rejection, you find it easy to run routines since you've done them so many times, and you find the party mood carrying over from the previous night. I know that the only way to get my game back to the level it was when I left Gainesville is to open more sets.
I really feel motivated after tonight. For one thing, I can see all the angles. I see when Jason can open girls, and I know each move that he should be making. When I see a set, I know exactly what the theory says about opening it. My problem is that I know that my actual practice of the theory is going to be awkward and I'll likely get busted out.
This reminds me that we blew a big opportunity early on. As we were leaving the first bar we went to, a guy opened Jason about his hat. The guy was in a 5 sets with 4 other girls. One of the girls was going crazy about Jason's outfit. She was visibly excited and she even snapped a photograph of Jason with the guy. Jason easily could have worked her by negging her. He could have said to the group, "Is she always like this?" (Heck, I even threw in a neg. She was having a hard time taking the picture, so I said, "You do know how to use a camera don't you.") The thing is that Jason left after they took the picture. We should have stuck around and worked the group. There were three girls for us to work. I wasn't nearly into the zone at that point so I wasn't much use.
Busted up by Obstacle:
Jason ended up meeting this girl as we were walking out of Mother's at the end of the night. She opened him as we were walking up the stairs. She then tried to get Jason to give her his necklace. He then got her to show him her breasts. Needless to say, we ended up staying. I stayed with Jason for awhile. I forced myself to open some targets, but Mother's was a target poor environment. The only set I found was a 4 set. There was a guy and a girl that looked like his girlfriend. They were having their own conversation. Next to him were two girls who were having a conversation.
I tried a lame vibing opener. I walked up and say, "Hey, what's going on? My friends forcing me to be social since he's hooking up over there." I know that was weak, but I was still in practice mode. This HB6 blonde immediately looked at me and smiled. The other girl didn't react. I then went into my tent opener. I hadn't run it in over a month.
Me: I want to get your opinion on this story my friend told me about. This guy lived in a tent in LA and he supposedly was this big ladies man. Would you ever date a guy that lived in a tent?
Blonde: No.
Me: Don't you think that's a little shallow?
Blonde: (said something like No, I wouldn't date him.)
Me: I thought the same thing when I first heard the story, but you girls read those romance novels where the woman falls in love with the pool guy or stablehand. How do you know when you're attracted to a guy?
Blonde: I don't know. I just get this feeling.
Me: Yeah, like a butterfly feeling in your stomach.
Blonde: Yeah.
Me: Well, imagine we're sitting her. Pretend I'm gay, and you see a Brad Pitt look-a-like walking in. You make eye contact with him and start to get that butterfly feeling. You hang out and find you're totally comfortable with him. Would you ditch him later when you find out he lives in a tent.
Blonde: No.
Everything was running like it usually does, but then the other girls made some comment that I couldn't hear. I asked her, "What do you think?" I was trying to get her involved. Instead of responding, she said to her friend, "I think we should get going."
WTF! The blonde was interested in my conversation. She was facing me the whole time and was smiling at me. I tried busting on the other girl by saying, "Why do you have to be a buzzkill? Are you tired?" I didn't know what else to do, so I ejected with Mystery's "Pleasure meeting you."
Analysis:
This was a perfect example of what happens when you don't engage the obstacle. I didn't know what to do as in the past, both girls would usually listen to my opener. In retrospect, I don't think I should have ejected. I should have just negged the obstacle by saying, "Wow, is she always like this?" and I should have continued gaming the blonde. The set did leave about ten minutes later, so I think they were really close to leaving ,but I took myself out of the game. I should have pressed on until the obstacle really made them all leave, or the blonde told me to leave. I'm out of practice or I'm sure I would have handled this better.
Gameplan:
I need to practice more so I can get back to my old level. I know that I was really close to breaking through when I left Florida. In the past, there were several sets that I held for a long time. Now that I'm not afraid to number close, all I have to do is run a set well again and I'm sure I can get a day 2. If I hold a set for 20-30 minutes, the number probably won't be a flake. Now, I just have to open a ton of sets every week . Even when my club game was completely on, I did find that it would take many sets before I'd find that one that worked well. At the Hyatt in Maui, it took almost all night for that to happen. With Colorado that one time at Alumni Club, I had to take some rejection and AMOGing before I found a great set. I have to keep reminding myself that even people who are good at the game get shot down a ton.
If I really want this, then I should plan on going to Cadillac Ranch tomorrow. I can play cards in the evening and then head out there around 12:30am. Either that, or I can run some mad day game. I should go to Woodfield Mall and practice my game there. There will be lone wolves there, and I can even practice on the "hired guns" (the employees). I should also hit Starbucks at Streets of Woodfield, and hit the Border's bookstore. I bet if I spent all day sarging the malls and various bookstores, I'm sure I could get a bunch of numbers, and surely one of them would be a solid one. If I really were going to be serious, I'd do day and night game, but I'll be happy with myself if I spend a few hours doing one or the other.
